Lol, it would be great if one only had to follow steps 1 through 7, then possibly repeat a few steps and voila wife and great marriage.Alas, its not so simple, and honestly everyone's situation will be so different that what works for one probably wouldn't work for or with another.That said, I can try to give you some general life advice that hopefully will help.Step 1, work on yourself (body) Look hard in the mirror. Do you have personal things you need to work on? Are you truly comfortable with yourself? Maybe you need to join a gym to become more healthy and fit. This is not about you needing to be buff to find a mate. It's more about being happy with what YOU see when you look at yourself. Others will sense it in you if you are or if you aren't. You will also be getting out and doing something. Talk to people there. Anyone, not just women. It's actually not a good place to hit on people but you can practice being sociable and friendly.Step 1.5. Keep working on yourself, (mind) Maybe you should take some classes. Could be art or career advancement subjects. Really up to you but it will get you out of the house, you'll meet new people. You will sharpen skills and freshen up your mind.Step 3, up your game. You should start talking to women everywhere you go. DO NOT HIT ON THEM. This all about being comfortable starting conversations and talking to people sociably. Talk to the girl who checks you out at grocery store, your waitress, a woman waiting for the bus.. Anywhere you find yourself standing there next to a female just smile and say hi. Make friendly small talk then tell her have a nice day or if she told you something she's doing tell her good luck w it.. Just be nice. If you are shy talking to attractive women start with not attractive ones or old ladys. Then adjust as you become comfortable.Next several steps.. Just keep doing the above... Try to get out and do more things where there are other people around. Pick stuff you enjoy. Socialize.It's important to broaden your circle. .Most people only go to the same places every day and only have the possibility of meeting a very limited number of people. Start going to different places. Try different stores. Get on meetup.com and join some groups so you can go out with other people and do fun stuff. DO NOT HIT ON WOMEN but do try to make friends and talk to as many as you can.If you keep doing the above you will better yourself, enjoy your life more and make more friends at the same time you are becoming more socially comfortable and meeting more women. The goal is to NATURALLY click with someone.. Not to plan it and if you are trying too hard they will sense you are desperate or creepy and its a turn off. You really don't go out and FIND A WIFE. You meet more people in positive social settings and have good conversation and hopefully someone clicks with you and you find you want to spend more time together. Your conversations get deeper and you become closer and you date and become exclusive and eventually things progress and you both find you are too important a part of each others lives to ever imagine going without and then you probably talk about futures and marriage before you pop the question.I did it differently because my wife sought me out. She was following my blogging on multicultural issues and cultural anthropology and then she emailed me... And I ignored her. Several times.. She sent me pics. I figured they weren't real and that she was too young, too pretty and too far away. One day I was bored and decided to chat w her anyway and it was like I had always known her.. We just clicked so well. We talked all night and I didn't want to stop but it was 4 am. So I asked if she'd be on next day. We picked up and kept chatting every day and then one day she told me she was at a family wedding and getting harrassed about being too old and shevbettervmarry or they'd find her someone. They had people in mind already. When I imagined her married to anyone else I was crazy and I knew I had to go. So I wiped out my bank flew to China and spent 2 weeks with her and asked her to marry me.But unless you speak another language and have a great deal of first hand experience with that culture I don't actually recommend going that route. By all means if you are studying/working abroad go ahead but keep in mind the K1 visa process is hell to go through. Long, opaque, and expensive, one might guess it was designed to break a couple before they can marry. My wife's visa took 9 months.